The Miami Herald November 15, 2001 Page: 42GI
GIVING IN THE SHADOW OF GRIEF KIDS 4 KIDS CLUB TEACHES CHILDREN A LESSON OF A LIFETIME BY DONNA GEHRKE-WHITE
Ask Dylan Carper, 9, why he gives to the needy and he tells you right away: ``Because my grandpa and my mom had cancer and I just know how it feels with other kids.'' ``I feel really bad for the people who are poor,'' adds his friend, Devin Carter, 9. The two are fourth-graders at Jack D. Gordon Elementary in south Miami-Dade - and budding philanthropists of tomorrow. THEY'RE LUCKY They count themselves lucky their school has a club to help others, Kids 4 Kids. Now in its fifth year, the club has about 200 students, from second to fifth grade. They meet early every other Wednesday to carry out charitable projects, from making Halloween goodie bags for homeless children to preparing to send buttons they made for the troops overseas. In December, the club will adopt 85 homeless families and hold a holiday bash for them. ``Eighty-five families will meet 85 strangers and leave as friends,'' says the club's founder, Beth Davis, a science teacher at the school. She was ahead of her time: Now there is a movement to get kids started as early as possible in giving to others. It's a lesson that will last a lifetime, says Jack D. Gordon Elementary Principal Mar’a V. Pabell—n, a big supporter of Kids 4 Kids. And it's a lesson that carries over to adults, rekindling their compassion, often buried by the busyness in today's lives. ``Our children are teaching the adults who have forgotten to help others in need,'' Pabell—n says. ``It shouldn't take a tragedy to help your neighbor.'' STUFFED BACKPACKS The club's biggest event is raising money to buy backpacks stuffed with school supplies for thousands of children - many of whom have never had new crayons, says Davis, the club's founder. It's a project dear to her heart. Her grandfather, an immigrant, struggled. ``He was six when his parents died [in Russia],'' she says. ``He slept on their snowy graves, barefoot, because he had nowhere to go.'' Yet, ultimately he became a successful businessman in the United States, because of the kindness of others: An uncle gave him a boat ticket to America when his own son died. Once here, people helped him get started, buying china and other wares from his pushcart. He later opened his own lamp shade company. It's that kind of concern that can motivate children to rise above tough surroundings, she says. ``If kids receiving our backpacks know what we are doing,'' she adds, ``then they know someone cares.'' Last month, Davis was named to the Eckerd 100 Salute to Women for Community Volunteerism. She is also one of three state finalists for this school year's Presidential Award for Teaching Science, sponsored by the National Science Foundation. But one of her best rewards, she says, is seeing how students enjoy giving to others. Stephanie Richman, a third-grader, is one of those. Not only does she like to help people, but she likes to make the crafts that go to people in need. Her favorite: Drawing blue flowers on a postcard that was sent, with others, to rescue workers at the World Trade Center site. ``It cheers them up. They will be happy and be glad that people care for them,'' she says. Monica Skoko, a fifth-grader who has been in the club since second grade, is grateful that she has already had years of helping others. `There's a lot of people who need help and it feels really good to help them.''

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